Nollywood actress, Olayode Juliana popularly known as ‘Toyo Baby’ has spoken about the implications of pre-marital s3x.
According to her, having s3x before marriage ties one to the the person and it leads to having to compare such a person to one’s husband when one eventually gets married.
She also added that this eventually leads to cheating as many men and women can’t stay faithful to their partners.
“S3x before marriage makes relationship more complicated. Some ladies date more than five men before marriage and sleep with all of them because they see it as a norm or a way to prove their love against God’s standard. I personally believe that there is a lot to s3x than the pleasure it gives. It makes you become one with the person.
It ties you with the person, such that when you marry you compare your previous sexual life with your present and the memories of how you did it with the other person won’t leave you, expecting more from your husband or wife, forgetting that we are all not the same and our sexual lives can’t be the same as well.
That’s what leads to cheating in marriage. Some men or women can’t imagine been faithful to just one person because they’ve done it with several people in their past or before marriage so it’s difficult. Research has it and I learnt that if you had s3x with a particular person if you meet the person years after and you’re alone or whatever, it is very possible that you will do it again.”